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I Tried to Write About Racism

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I had a migraine the day after a woman

was killed while confronting Nazi

flags in Charlottesville. I anticipated this;

it happened after Dylan Roof too.

It seems, I try to tell my body

the news and it just can’t cope

with what humans do to humans

over and over

for meager prices.

 

That day, my niece’s voice over the phone

was overjoyed through the chaos–

she was going to have a daughter.

I smiled for her, but all I could think

about was how we were going

to explain the world,

how it works

to the future and their too wide eyes.

 

But I’ve worked in the children’s

department of libraries. Called

as a mother (firm, yet gentle)

behind a mixed group of children

playing hide and seek between

the juvenile shelves. Quickly, I remember

how two girls–

one black, one cornstarch blonde–

ran their fingers

in each other’s hair, fascinated

by the textures, silently finding

the differences very  funny,

but still, wonderful. When I think of how they

traded picture books and held hands until

reluctant to separate

and go home, I stopped wondering

whether reality will break my niece’s heart.

 

I apologized to the unborn, as I watched

it all gradually, then shut off the news

and myself for the weekend.

I read and cooked and even laughed,

but it was all puppet strings.

Everything was still exhausted

after watching

the who what when and where,

but the temples throbbed;

the body wasn’t ready to cross the line

where I could even ask the “why?”

(It asked at night, finally.

But I could only grasp at “I don’t know.

I wish I can explain some tempers,

but I grew up like the library children.”).

 

Later that night, I tried to write

about racism.

But all I could think about was how

my parents grew up watching

Martin Luther King have a dream

then die of it; Freedom Riders

beaten by the Klan before a bus

turned black and red; thousands

bruised the day before, but marching

again to brighten the landscape;

Emmitt Till’s open casket to scare the world

straight with mutilations–

and also, their disappointment, watching us

learn nothing, absolutely nothing.

 

Shooting pain again and it’s getting worse,

even with the strongest painkiller.

It still doesn’t get it either and my answers

can’t satisfy.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Future Husband:

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I just don’t get

the girls I went to college with–

the social butterflies,

the big, Miami beach personalities,

voices rising higher than champagne bubbles,

as I wondered who taught them how to draw a crowd,

add more lighting to a room

with smiles and fluid gestures.

 

You need to understand this, but I’m not

one of my many obsessions, like the girl

I watched fit in like a geometric piece

in improv club or anywhere else with the right

kind of quirks, or the friend who drank beer,

shouted louder than her guy friends, or the girl with attitude

most likely voted to be the “natural born leader”.

I’m not even the American

sweetheart who gets large tips at a restaurant job

and boyfriends with just a smile and a high pitched voice.

 

No. I am the polar night phenomenon for days

and days in Alaska;

or, the pale gray sky releasing another day of sleet.  I am the student

being told “to smile more” in a seventh grade progress report;

the girl told to “speak louder, I still can’t hear you,” or the five

points subtracted from a oral presentation due to “lack of confidence,”

teachers’ yearly “help her come out of my shell” project

(they always failed).

I am the students advising me not to join the debate team,

among other clubs where introverts need not apply,

reading about the power of my personality

in world that can’t stop talking; too reserved to be

girls gone wild or a male’s Xtube fantasy; I can only

watch the life of the party, suited to absorb lives

in a book while curled on a couch, a safe distance

from sensory overloads on Bourbon.

I’m hurrying home at 5 pm to be alone with the radio

down low, spending nights in white satin and other throwbacks.

I am skipping ads that look for workers with a “can-do”

spirit; I throw away ads that have the word “out-going”.

I’m the twelve year old correcting my mother,

“I’m not pessimistic, just realistic.”

I’m more my mother’s husband’s daughter, expressions

As dark as his skin, final gestures, morose frowns trying

To be as sweet as the Creole princess she hoped for

(not this depressive alternative black girl she was given).

I’m the diagnosis, the medication,

the therapy, the girl that jumbles, mutters, whispers

words, slightly better than my aunt’s non-verbal childhood,

but falling far, far behind.

I’m the moody eyeliner.

The blue lips.

The sullen eyes,

The whatever shrug,

The “please make eye contact,”

The bullies’ target

The weird one because I don’t care for the top 40,

don’t care who in the hell is on Housewives of Whatever,

Wondering what’s the big deal about the homecoming dance.

A blank slate where you draw a personality,

Writing phone numbers but expecting no calls or friendships

(better off anyway, they’ll annoy me).

I’m a broken house divided despite the best of my worst efforts,

Taking my time after the bus ride.

 

I am nothing people chase after.

 

But this is me, being as honest as I can possibly be.

Forgive me,

and thank you for staying.

 

Divorce Child

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The child changed after dissolution–
too much like the mother, too
much like the father, but hardly
enough for either. After all, he was
the closest body to their biggest mistake.
Their baggage weighed a ton each.
They unloaded item after item
until he swallowed it whole, leaving
no room for much else. Last I heard,
the malnutrition stunted the size of him

 

Platonic Love

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I want to find

your favorite

bouquet of flowers,

 

place it before you

on the coffee table,

watch you smile,

 

watch them wilt

overtime,

ashamed of standing

 

next to your beauty,

and endurance

compared to their petals

 

and even then,

that’s not enough

love I can give .